The most helpful is listening to the story of their soul and see it in the bigger story of God. We are waging against the flesh and the spirit, for the person’s soul – we aren’t alone, but the Spirit of God will empower us and him to bring us home to God.
One of the most helpful concepts in the basic model of SoulCare is asking Reframing questions. Shifting from immediate problems to the story of their soul is what people really need and long for.
What is most helpful to me is paying attention to my own interior world and practicing paying attention. It doesn’t come naturally, so it must become a discipline.
What is most helpful is the remembering of my own interior world and how to try not to fix the person but get excited about the work that the spirit is doing in them with their encounter with their spirit dynamics.