What we should do is not always what we do.
Prayer. It is hard not to want to take action into my own hands. I have noticed that praying before responding to any situation helps me.
I usually respond very negatively and it prevents me from seeing the big picture. This may be how God intended it to be. I should try to learn from setbacks instead of being stopped by them. Again, it is all about trusting God. Go to Him for answers to setbacks.
When things don’t go as planned, my initial reaction is one of frustration, mixed with anger. There is also a tendency, like the Israelites, to ask God why? I sub-consciously expect God to order things according to my plans, and when the plans go awry, it’s God’s fault, not mine.
I had learned to trust God even the circumstances doesn’t go as expected, he is sovereign and almighty