CC010-01 | Our Daily Bread University

According to Dr. Welch, which of the following is a common mistake couples make when engaging in conflict?

Dr. Welch encourages students to do what?

What exercise does Dr. Welch recommend in this lesson?

Each spouse makes two lists: One of their own warning signs and one of the warning signs they perceive in their spouse.
Each spouse makes a list of the things his/her spouse does that are most hurtful.
Each spouse makes a list of things that make him/her feel loved.
Each spouse makes two lists: One of their own deepest desires and one of what they believe their spouse’s deepest desires to be.

Which of the following is an example of learned helplessness?

I’d like to be the kind of spouse God wants me to be, but I’ve failed so many times, I don’t think it’s possible.
I’m willing to settle for what I have.
I don’t have any hope for change in my marriage.
All of the above

How does Dr. Welch use Niagara Falls to describe what conflict is like in a relationship?

People often reach a point of no return in terms of the intensity of their anger.
Conflicts have a point where things are still fairly calm and you can change course if you need to.
There are often warning signs imploring you to turn back before you’ve gone too far.
All of the above

What does Dr. Welch say this course is primarily about?

According to Dr. Welch, what is a problem many people have in their marriages?

What do you need to do in order for your relationship to change?

You have to care more about the process of how you treat each other than about the cause of the conflict.
You have to learn effective techniques for helping your spouse see your point of view.
You have to care more about the heart of the conflict than about the outcome of the conflict.
All of the above

According to Dr. Welch, why do spouses have a hard time believing their spouses can change?

When in conflict with your spouse, Dr. Welch recommends you care about which of the following?

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